Sunday, May 6, 2012

The End


So, we are finally back home settled somewhat into life in Vancouver after our 3 months away. And after many days of traveling, a week spent with family in Kelowna, another 5 days back in Vancouver with the worst flu I can remember, and about 20 hours of unpacking and re-organizing, I finally have a chance to sit down and recall some of the fond memories we endured over the last 2.5 weeks.

Thursday April 19th we loaded up the car and said good-bye to our 270 square foot cottage in Oceanside and hello to the 50 square foot station wagon where we would be spending the next 3 days. From Oceanside to Ukiah (the town where Doug and Stephanie live) is about 11 hours so our plan was to go for about 7 or 8 hours, spend the night somewhere, and then have a short drive to Ukiah on Friday. The weather was hot—30 degrees outside and about 35 degrees in the car. No air conditioning meant the windows were open and that meant no talking, just yelling occasionally if something really needed to be said. Freddie didn’t get it at first but after a little while she figured it out. As we got closer to the 8 hour mark we decided to stop in Los Banos at about 6pm. We checked into our hotel and headed for the closest Mexican style restaurant for some margaritas—our reward for baking all day on the Freeway. Freddie’s reward was her favorite, a burger and fries. 

We went back to the hotel at 7:30 and after a long swim in the pool we got into our room at about 9. Realizing that the air conditioner wasn’t working I suggested to Steve that we (he) complain. Steve thought we should forget about it. After being in the hot car all day he didn’t feel like talking to anyone. I, on the other hand, thought we at least deserved to be comfortable for our sleeping hours, so I convinced him to go get someone. The manager came to the room, banged around on the air conditioner a bit, shrugged his shoulders and said “you can change rooms if you want”. Steve wasn’t interested, but since the other room was right next door I convinced him it would be a good idea. It took 15 minutes or so and we were glad to be in a cooler room but I don’t like to let sleeping dogs lie. I thought cool wasn’t good enough; we needed to compensated for our loss—you know, that 15 minutes it took to change rooms. So I stopped the manager and after a brief explanation of our expectations and what seemed like an eternal stare down, he begrudgingly agreed to give us 10% off. We saved a bit I guess. I got to pick on someone, Steve got to feel his effort was worth something, and we all got a cool night’s sleep.

Friday morning we awoke to even warmer temperatures. Leaving Los Banos at about 10am got us to Ukiah at 3pm and we went to a park for an hour so we could all cool off. Freddie played for a bit and then we stopped for the night at Doug and Stephanie’s. When we got to their house the thermometer outside their window read 34 degrees. It was the perfect temperature for hanging out on their patio and eating some BBQ.  Stephanie didn’t have to work that night so we got to see both of them and we had a great time telling stories about our trip and hearing about what they had been up to over the last 2 and a half months since we saw them last. I went to bed a little earlier since Steve and I had been tossing around the idea of a straight trip from Ukiah to Kelowna the next day. 

 Steve, sad to leave California.





Saturday morning Freddie waited for us in the car while we loaded up our things and kept saying, “let’s go, let’s go!” We waved goodbye to Doug and Stephanie and headed out of Ukaih at 10am ready for our very long 21hr drive to Kelowna.

Northern California is very beautiful country. We were taking mental snap shots as we drove through trying to imbed the last visual memories of this incredible trip. Vancouver is a beautiful place too, but it’s definitely lacking in the sunny days department. 



 Mount Shasta


 We drove past a Vietnam War Memorial Garden and pulled in to take some pictures.







At 7pm, a few hours out of California, we stopped in Bend Oregon for some really bad dinner (we had planned to have a good dinner but that didn’t work out). We made one last shopping stop for some tax-free liquor and a few snacks for the road. It had been another hot day in the car but by 9pm we rolled up the windows and Freddie watched a some tv on the phone while Steve and I enjoyed the relative quietness of the car and thought about the hours of driving ahead. If all went according to plan we would be in Kelowna at 7am

Freddie eventually fell asleep and Steve decided to keep driving while I tried to sleep without any luck. At 12:30am we traded seats and he tried to sleep while I drove until 2:30am. This is when I realized I had forgotten to notice the gas gauge (classic), and we were running very low on fuel with no gas stations in sight. We pulled over to try and figure out where we were and how far it was to the nearest gas station. 10 miles and we would be in a town, but would they have an open gas station at 3:00am? We drove the 10 miles and made it into the closed gas station on fumes. We thought we might just sleep in the car and wait until they opened. But then Steve thought we should at least check if the pumps were running. Most of you who have traveled to the States have experienced that you can’t pay at the pump without a zip code, somehow this gas station was different and had no zip code requirement, so we filled up and just kept driving. Steve took over since he was all jazzed up from the whole almost running out of gas thing, and I finally slept. At about 4am I woke up again and we both tried to keep each other awake as we headed closer to Canadian soil. We got to the border at about 5am and since there was no line at the crossing, and he hadn’t really slept in 20 hours, Steve didn’t notice the stop light at the crossing gate. He stopped, just not right at the light where he was supposed to. This caused a bit of a commotion. There were no guards in the booth but when we pulled through two of them came running, hands on their guns yelling at Steve to pull the car back. Anyway, they calmed down when they realized we weren’t trying to do anything. I’m not really sure what we would have been trying to do, but it makes for a funny picture: Sleep deprived driver rolls through Osoyoos border crossing going 3kms/hr, border guards chase on foot in hot pursuit, guns firing—“Stop” they yell, “You can’t go in there!! You have to throw those perishables in the trash! The trash!!” They say trash because they’re so close to the boarder of course, and Americans don't know what you're talking about when you say "garbage". Anyway, we made it through with no bullet holes. I drove from that point and Steve slept, waking with the occasional jerk to see if I was still awake. Driving through the night is not safest way to travel that is true, but it sure is a lot quieter when you have a child in the car who, when awake, only wants to listen her audio book, “Horton Hears a Who”, over and over and over.

Freddie being very sweet.
Sunday morning 6:45am we arrived at my parents house, felt slightly bad for waking them up, talked about how tired we were until they offered to watch Freddie while we slept, and woke up a few hours later to have breakfast with them.

Kelowna was great and very busy, as it always is. There were a couple of birthday parties—one at each set of Grandparents’. We visited with friends and caught up on everything. Freddie got to go to a farm and pick up some chicks with Grandpa. She named them Henny and Penny. Freddie’s time was spent either holding chicks or playing with cousins. We all appreciated the time being social again.






Monday night I spent all the hours I should have been sleeping awake in the w/c with the most horrible stomach flu. Tuesday morning I lay on the couch as limp and pale as a dying E.T. while Steve packed up the car for the final time. We drove to Vancouver, the shortest drive of our whole trip so far.

The house was fine, and the sub-letters took good care of everything. The 5 days of flu finally ended. Freddie hasn’t wanted to leave the house yet; I think she’s afraid we might take her away again. Besides there’s so many toys and so much space, why would she want to leave?! Steve is thrilled to be back in the studio. I’m glad to be back in my own space with all the conveniences and none of the surprises. But, even with all the comforts that home brings I think the travel bug has bitten us all and I wouldn’t be surprised if a trip like this happens again. Not right away though, we’re not that crazy. For now we are happy to be back in the warm arms of our friends and family and the not so warm arms of Vancouver.

The End

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Last days in Oceanside

Monday I went fishing by myself for a little me time. It was sunny and all the fisher-people were out on the pier. There must have been around 80 or even 100 people out there with me, and we were all reeling them in. I caught 3 Mackerel within the first 10 minutes—all on one line. The lure I have been using has 5 hooks on it so you can catch a lot at once. It’s exciting to have a few fish in on the line at once but it also makes for a short fishing trip since I’d rather just catch enough to eat for one or two days at a time. Within 45 minutes I caught 11 fish and threw 4 back. I came home with about 5 pounds of Mackerel and Sardines! It has been a really great way to spend time with Freddie and pass some time by myself too. I will definitely miss it but maybe we’ll be back here again someday and I can fish to my heart’s content. 


Last night we were lucky enough to spend a great evening with our friends Terry and Jade who are visiting from Vancouver and staying in San Diego for the week. What a much needed breath of social fresh air. We have been without contact with anyone familiar for over a month now (when my parents came to visit) and who knows how long it was before that—somewhere close to 7 or 8 weeks. It was nice to share a meal with some great friends who know what it’s like to eat dinner and visit while children are yelling in the background. They have a 3 year old and a 1 year old so they are no strangers to chaos, and we were happy to be sharing the chaos with anyone but ourselves. We had some fun in the hot tub where Freddie and Olive really hit it off pretending to be different animals stuck in a mud pit. Thanks again Terry and Jade! We’ll see you back in Vancouver soon.




Saturday, April 14, 2012

3 and 37


Oceanside is a beautiful place to stay for a short vacation and the longer we’re here the more we realize that it’s time to go home. The beach is a great place to spend some time, even a lot of time, but I think, like most good things, the more you have of them the less you appreciate them. I have loved the time we have spent here in California, especially the first 6 weeks when we were traveling around to all the different sites. I have also really enjoyed the last couple of weeks exploring the towns around Oceanside and hanging around with Freddie, fishing and playing on the beach. Three weeks seems to be the perfect amount of time to get to know a place, and once that time is up it seems the perfect time to leave. We were in Oakland for three weeks and now we’ve been here for three weeks too. Six more days and we will pack our things and start our long trip back toward home.

Today was a great day—Freddie turned 3! And tomorrow Steve grows another year older as well. We kind of celebrated both of their birthdays together but I will try and make tomorrow exciting so that Steve doesn’t feel usurped since the last two years have been all about Freddie (maybe this year too?).

Freddie got a pony with wings, it talks too!
She also got a Richard Scarry book about “What People Do All Day”. These are her favorite books right now and she spends a lot of time figuring them out.
 Her favorite breakfast (Steve’s too)—eggs and bacon.
We went to the mall (the weather wasn’t too great today) so Freddie could go for a ride on the carousel.
We had a party and cake of course. Since we’re away from home it was easier to just make one cake; 40 candles—37 for Steve and 3 for Freddie.





Freddie's feet fit these flip-flops when I bought them a month ago.
After dinner we went for a walk. A clown was spending some time outside too; the perfect ending to a birthday. Happy birthday Freddie!!! We love you!




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This week is supposed to be hot and that means I can work on my tan before we leave (I’ve got to have something to show for all this California time). Then we will pack it all up say good-bye to the warm sunny days and hello to a rainy spring in Vancouver.

The first night of our trip back we will stay in San Francisco, then we will spend the next evening with Doug and Stephanie again in Ukiah (yay!). After that we will wind our way back though the Redwood Forest and head for Eugene Oregon. The last day will be a long one and will take us all the way to Kelowna. We are going to spend the last week of April there catching up with family and killing some time before the people sub-letting our place in Vancouver move out for May.1st. I can hardly wait to see our family and friends again, it’s been too long. See you in 1 week!!